You can go to see another lawyer. Consultations are usually free. The first L I spoke w/gave me some info, which, according to the second L, was erroneous. So you may want to consider that option.
I'm agreeing w/the other gals here. Chasing H does not work. Read what Coach is saying. Reread it. Keep reading it until it sinks in and resonates within you.
The part about still living w/OW for $$$ reasons - argh! Hogwash.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10