WOW. That is strange. Will your wife see that as a sign or a mere coincidence. Anyway Mr. Hope you are able to cope with whichever way it goes. I feel for you man, the uncertainty is the worst by far.
Don't want to offer you false hope but even that gesture of stopping at the church means she has doubt. Don't know how long it takes before they reach an epiphany that " Hey , i'm doing the wrong thing kicks in" Its different for everybody.
Hang in there.
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