What do I do?

[timehealsall]

I would let your W know that living in a celibate R as roommates will not work for you for two years. She is simply keeping her life as easy as possible while she finishes school.

Let her make the choice but if she chooses not to work on the marriage there is not a reason in the world for her to live with you for the next 2 years. IMO she is simply using you for housing and to maintain a certain level of financial and emotional comfort (on her terms).

I agree.. That is just a load of crap and you do not deserve it.