My exH used to say, "Give me the headline, THEN I'll listen to the story..." I would often ramble before getting to the point and he preferred the point first so the rest made sense...
Just last night on Glee (yep everything goes back to Glee) they were talking about how the boys took advantage of/mistreated the girls in many ways, and how the girls allowed it to happen....they said we need to take ownership of our lives and of our bodies and not give that control over to the guys...what we do with our bodies is up to us, etc.
So if you want to know what is going on then you sure as he!! have the right to say, "So, Gabe, what's going on here, from your POV?"
