Same here, (x)W would be appreciative of my offers of support, "think about it", then become completely bitter and hostile.
It's a darned if you do, darned if you don't scinerio. Fact of the matter is, she is proclaiming she no longer needs or wants your support by way of D. Therefor, as it took me so long to do, I finally gave (x)W just what she "wanted" in that. And now she's back.
