It's not about playing games. Have you read DB? First rule is to not bring up any R talks because it pushes the WAS further away. Well, look what you've been doing. You haven't gone dark or whatever and everytime you meet up with her, it becomes about the R. Now the last time I checked, she got so fed up with you ignoring her request that she blindsided you.
So obviously not giving her what she wants or at least partially, isn't working. If you want to save your M, you need to do something different.
Originally Posted By: MrBond
Or better yet, put yourself in her shoes. If you didn't like someone and they kept bugging you or wouldn't give you what you wanted, how would you feel? Would you be all happy or would you get irritated? I'm guessing it's the latter.
Why would any of us believe we want to or need to be with someone who doesn't like us?
Originally Posted By: MrBond
You can tell her that you agree that what was in the old M didn't work and that's it. You don't need to go into details. What you were doing by avoiding being served, etc....that was playing games.
If you want to save your M, you need to come up with a strategy that will work.
