4luv, thank you. In Feb when he thought about working it out I became very pushy with him. And ended up pushy him even further away. Once he gave me any hope I went crazy with pursing him.
This time I know now what I need to do and that is to let him take the lead on working on our M. In the meantime, I'm working on myself and my own issues.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10