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I am so sorry that things APPEAR to have taken a turn for the worse. The key word is APPEAR. Look buddy you really have no idea what she will do and feel in the future. So IMO what you should do is take a step back for a second and figure out what makes the most sense for you and the kids.

You cannot control her, you cannot control her feelings BUT YOU can control how you deal with this. Will you throw in the towel? Will you let HER actions make you feel like sh*t or will you stand up and TRUST God? Your choice buddy. I know what I would do.

This is a critical time for YOU. One that if embraced can change your perspective in a manner that you will appreciate later. Later can be tomorrow, can be two months from now or could be when YOU decide.

Keep your head up, be respectful, be kind - be the man that God wants you to be and then TRUST Him and let go.

FTR - the above coming from someone who was served yesterday.

So what r u going to do now?

God Bless
Eric


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