How am I to trust H when repeatedly he hasn't a) shown up on time on the days and times we've agreed to, b)abandoned S completely on his days, c) not followed through on our agreement on beginning visits d) shown verbal and once, physical abuse to our S.
Either you do or you don't. If you don't then maybe ending the R is the best for everyone concerned. Rebuilding trust when it has been this shattered (especially with the abuse) is damn tough.
Are you willing to settle being in an untrusting & unfulfilling R and continue to tolerate what he is doing as you have described above?
I believe you deserve better... he may not be capable of doing better.
Peace Bridge
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.
