Mind, sorry to hear your sitch. That's a tough one and I feel you made the right decision. It's always better to ACT than REACT.
Like others I too would like to borrow your mind and heart when you're done.
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again