Thanks, WhatNow, for spelling it out for me like that. I'm starting to get it. It seems that Option 2 is heavily promoted here, but I'm scared to death of sending her away with the possibility of her not coming back (which is what happened to her sister a few months ago in a similar situation), so I guess right now, I'm leaning towards Option 1.


My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.