He is here getting more stuff. He's even taking the shelving units out of the garage. His reasoning is that I got everything inside, he gets everything outside. That probably includes the garden hose I see laying on the ground. I don't know what the heck he needs a garden hose for. Whatever...there is a Harbor Freight nearby if I really need a screwdriver. Or a garden hose. I think he is just trying to make me mad, he is being incredibly hateful.
I don't care. It's hurtful, but I'm not responding.
He is starting in on money already. We took money out of my retirement to pay off some debt and I saved $500 to pay for the next 6 months of the car insurance. He wants to either stay on the same insurance or me give him half of it. He said my keeping it is stealing.
Again, whatever. Take the $250. I'm not fighting over $250. I'm not fighting at all.
I mentioned to him that S2 was crying last night because he missed him, and suggested that maybe he could call them at night before bed. He said no, I could call him. Ummm... He then pointed out that I have free long distance and his parents don't, then started in about how it's my fault that he's crying anyway. I just told him to let me know when a could time for them to call would be & came back inside.
S6 is sad, he gave H the pictures & presents he'd made last night & H literally brushed right by him with a "Yeah, that's nice."
Who the hell is this man? Fine. Make me pay, leave them alone. Last I heard he was telling S6 that he could come visit anytime and that I can't keep him away. *sigh*
I don't know if he's trying to hurt me, but this is no way to get your family back, or even make me care that you're upset.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.