Ok, see this is where I really get confused. The book and people on this board say to show the changes to the WAS and they will notice. Show them this and that and see if it works, if it doesn't try something else.
GF this is confusing especially if you've been reading other boards. I think you have to keep in mind and what has been said by trapt and others here.
YOU have to do this for YOU. Strategies won't work. Strategies mean expectations. EXPECTATIONS will be your downfall and you will stay STUCK.
Beleive me when you make changes in YOU you be in a much better place.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
