W can't break EA - not sure how to handle it

[pigskin]

I'd like to know how to make W depression easier to deal with as well.

All I do is try to keep telling myself that it is something out of her control, and to roll with it as well as I can. At the same time you can't let them treat you in an abusive manner; you have to call them out on it if it occurs, then walk away without engaging in arguments.