Thank you all so much for the kind words and support. It means the world to me.
My friends came and my mom and stepdad came as well. We had all the furniture out for him to take as well as all his stuff from the storage shed. The most important thing for me to focus on is the amazing circle of friends I have and my family.
My H showed up almost an hour late without so much the courtesy of a text to let me know. I did not see him at all nor did I even look out the peephole. I asked him to tend to the items first in the hallway then work in the storage unit as it was very late and I knew my neighbors would be going to bed. He didn't do that.
He texted me after they left with a "Im done". Not so much a thank you for hauling out his stuff. I went down to the storage unit and he left all the lights on, the door open and he left the community cart we all share OUTSIDE.
Anything more that has to be done can be done via the postal mail. I have blocked his number from my phone. I will not block him from e-mail until I have the rest of the funds he owes me. My attny is now involved again so that is that. We have been separated since Nov. 19th 2009 and that is ample time for him to execute the rest of the agreement.
And you know what? I feel just fine today Took my dog for a long walk this morning. Had a lovely 30 min. conversation with "hot German Sheppard man" (too bad he has a girlfriend but she is very, very sweet!) and now I have tons of work to catch up on. My sister is coming for dinner tonight.