I think that, just like anything....

You start at step one with that.

I made a list of qualities that I wanted to see in myself. Things that I wanted my reflection to show.

I have heard of people in reflection that have written their own epitaph of sorts.

Things they wanted to be remembered by, and qualities that they wanted to sparkle within themselves when that time comes.

Write that list, and look at it every night to make sure you were who you wanted to be.

Then ......Look around. There are things and places to start everywhere.

Start small and work towards the way you envision you being....

Small can be as simple as cleaning out the garage if you incorporate you in it.