Well, we've had a couple more honest discussions. We talked about the LM and my wife admitted that maybe we shouldn't have jumped into that because while she enjoyed the act she stayed emotionally detached and feels bad about that. I also realize the sitch is taking a much larger emotional toll on her than I had realized. I've been in a training academy at a new job so I've just not had time to get into the books due to lack of time. It's a priority and I hope I can start reading tonight. We see the MC Friday afternoon so until then I'll be following the advice given here. Thanks!
