Number8: I guess I imagined him giving our wedding pictures the finger or dancing around
LOL!
Also it is hilarious about contractor kama sutra! I bet contractors have seen it all and a hundred times. Ha.
On a more serious note, it sounds very possible that your father's illness reminded him of the tough times after your mother's death and it is one of the things that triggered him to flee. It's not a coincidence on these boards that R problems escalate around illness, childbirth, job loss, and death. Stress. It's called head for the hills!
