Thx so much, rr22. I'm feeling like I must act immediately and file with L to protect myself and my kids. I could handle it when it was him making threats about money and just being downright hateful to me. Now that he's threatening to take house and kids and trying to claim that I'm not thinking clearly and therefore unable to take care of my kids, I'm really scared. I wouldn't put it past him to sneak into house while we're gone, change locks (he's done this before), and refuse to let me in. He'd say kids could come in and then he'd lock me out taking custody of home and kids.
I've trusted in his fam 100% as they've been on my side and given me info and spending money while swearing me to secrecy. H does not know his fam has been talking to me. I don't think that they would tell him of giving me phone records if they did. When he changed password and account info on our personal cell account, his mother was ticked and insisted I change everything back and passcode protect the account. I think I can trust his fam.
Feel like I should bring recording of phone call from yesterday, all debt/asset info, log of daily happenings since he left, etc. to L. I feel like I need to file to protect myself IMMEDIATELY however Sat is S11's bday and I don't want the anniv of his parents' divorce to be near his bday.
I'm so confused, scared, and don't know what to do. Again, his fam says it's just threats to try to provoke me and force me to hate him so that he won't feel guilty about assumed affair.
