FM- yes I know you think I should meet with an L (lol! you've said it a few times! ((hugs)) )Thank you for thinking of me. I have an uncomplicated financial situation and unless something comes up that is fishy I will be fine without an L.

Gatsby- glad I am not the only one who asks for signs! And I am with you on the technology-but I have no desire personally to get to know my computer that intimately lol!

CW- I did feel empowered throwing his clothes in a pile. As I ripped them from the hangers it made me think of "Waiting to Exhale" where Angela Bennett rips all of her H's clothes off their hangers- but she set them on fire in his BMW in the driveway!

I am not starting the new visitation arrangement yet. It is my last card so to speak- will talk it over with my therapist on Thursday.

Today it is supposed to be dry so after S' swim class, I will mow the lawn. And my cordless screwdriver is charged so I can get busy installing the latches.


me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004