I am glad you were able to make that first step.

I read this board and posted on another infidelity board for almost three months before having the courage. I REGRET not having posted sooner. I was just so ashamed to. Had I had the tools then that I have now, I'd be in a better place in my M.

Is the OW married? Have you enforced boundaries?

M: 32
H: 34
S:5
D: 3
D: 1
Together 11 years
Married 7
Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off)
ILYBINILWY: 08/09

"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting."
-Laura Munson