You do it because you want to and you don't give a f@ck if she responds nicely or not. Believe me, if you start making positive behaviors into habits, there will be others who are going to take notice.
It was my habit, because I was raised to do it. This persons act was so terrible, that it made me detest doing it for them in particular. I'm not doing it for a "man" like you would for a woman. You'll know if you ever get to the point I described, and trust me it doesn't feel good at all. Like if you did it for one particular woman, and she spit a lugie into your face each and every time you did it, you probably wouldn't do it for her.
You can't be a gentleman to everyone, some people are very good at taking advantage of it.
