I have been reading the forum for a couple of months and finally got the courage to post. M 45, H53, M 16, SS 24, SS 18, S 14 EA 2 PA 1 D Day 4/17/09. Many False starts
The OW is a coworker and the are communicating via work email and text. I found an email last week where the OW says "don't you know I'm mad at you and we could be friends if you just got divorced". I don't want to get divorced. I am a train wreck emotionally. The kids are so sick of all of this they just want it all to stop. Our friends are sick of it and think we should just hang it up. I just want him to stop the EA and work on the marriage. Help.
