What if she says "I see your point. I am being selfish" starts having sex with him again? Too logical I guess.
She hasn't had sex with him for almost a year (or maybe more) and after him saying this you think she will want to have sex with him just like that?!
And you think that sounds logical LOL!
After he has this very real conversation with her, he can move on in the direction he decides to move on it, it's scary for him I'm sure since he's been db'ing his a$$ off for years literally but it's a requirement, he's living an unfulfilled life with someone who doesn't love him and he can do better and will do better either way.
Robx,
Its not "logical" for her to accept that she's being extremely selfish.
What is "too logical" is for her to think "yes, I have been being selfish." and start having sex with him. Its not going to happen, because its too logical.
Whats really going to happen is she's going to either find a reason to blame him, or continue not to think about him.
What we were saying about the waywards is that there are some things that they just can't realize because they are "too logical".
IE: "He keeps saying that I'm treating him like crap. But he's always mad at me..." Maybe he's mad because you treat him like crap and you do so because your cheating, DOH. Too logical.
Hell if he's been starved out for a year, maybe he should invite her on a date with his new girlfriend who loves to see him fulfilled.
Its saddening to realize that these WAS ( WAW ) will string us along as long as possible, while literally not even offering crumbs - and make it logical in their mind. "Well I let him spend time with his kids and help out. But I don't need him to have sex with me or for intimacy because thats what OM does". You know they think that. "What about me?"
LOL
This has nothing to do with logic, this has everything to do with being in love with their feelings, if their feelings tell them the sky is green and you tell them the sky is blue, you're against them because you don't agree with their feelings, feelings/emotions have nothing to do with logic and you can't apply logic to emotions, it never works which is why you have so many frustrated men on these forums dealing with wives who are thick in their fogs having affairs with other men while the left behind husbands kiss ass, pursue, buy gifts, act like slaves, put up with abusive behavior hoping their wives will snap out of their dreams and realize the error of their ways - hopefully most of you realize this NEVER works!
Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
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You do it because you want to and you don't give a f@ck if she responds nicely or not.
Bologna.. Don't kid yourself. Of course we care how they respond. Guys who think this way are destined for failure. Women don't respect a man that keeps on giving to her while she is giving very little or nothing in return. For love to work mutually it MUST be reciprocated. Don't lie to yourself and say you don't care how she responds to you. That is silly. Don't make it the most important thing in your life, but also don't overlook how she is treating you back.
