Yeah... its tough... I am struggling to decide if this is what I want after all.... I knew a day would come that he would regret his decision, but I thought it would be MUCH later when I was already moved on....

I am terrified to be on this forum again down the road in this same boat again.... I know alot of people have overcome alot in their marriages, way worse than what we were going thru.... but my trust is still damaged and Im going to have a hard time feeling comfortable with his commitment to this marriage....

Is it normal for the WAS to just start diving right back into the marriage when they do come around... he talks almost like nothing ever happened... talks about life and our future together like nothing was ever wrong... is that normal??

For those with success stories... how is this done? How do we get back on track to where we are both happy and want this marriage, forever?

Me: 25
H:25
M: 2yrs
T: 4yrs
No Kids
Bomb: 11 Feb 10
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