CW,
Imagine trying to cope with religious and family pressure while trying to deal with a MLCer. OW has no idea who your H really is. All she's getting is the shell of your H as he is aboard the mothership on the ride of a lifetime.

You're so wise not wanting him back right now. He's no where near done.

I'm choosing to view this time as a favor to me. I get to work on me without the pressure of having to deal day to day with a person who is now a virtual stranger as he is so different from the man I used to know. It almost makes me feel sorry for ow. Well, not really, she's getting what she deserves. lol

Hang in there, you're doing great. As a wise dber once told me, I'm watching the same movie, just in a different theater. Popcorn anyone?