Two things:

Go with the flow.

Keep your boundaries. As healthy individuals we have to keep out boundaries, separate friends as well as common friends, separate interests and activities, as well as common interests and activities. It's too easy to lose your sense of identity in a M so it's important to work on keeping them - that goes for both you and your H.

As LSG said above, cautiously optimistic. And make sure that your R continues to be positive for YOU.


MySitch
Me-47
STBXW-41
D-5
S-8
ILYBNILWY-01/08
Want a D- 01/09
Physical Sep-01/10
D filed-06/10
Got 50% custody=09/11
Ride that wave!