That last part has me in tears again. How incredibly sweet of you, and what a great way to show them how to care about W when she's isn't there. I think we'll have to start praying as a family at night before bed.
Thank you so much.
I'm happy that W actually tries with your kids. I don't know a mom who could not reach out. (Except mine...weak lol)
What is happening between the adults shouldn't be magnified upon the kids. They are already going through enough.
I'll take your advice & gently *suggest* it to him when he comes today to get more stuff. I'll do it in front of his dad, who absolutely adores his grandkids--not to get him "in trouble", but to have someone there on the kid's side.
formerly known as "shelbel" Me 40, stbxh 40 DSs 9, 7 & 3 M9, T10 Stbxh is a diagnosed bipolar & an addict. The end.
