I hope you are doing okay. I know everything is a shock for you, and you feel that you are f'd. There is always hope. Don't give up on hope! I have read some sitches where it seemed hopeless, and somehow it worked out. Keep DBing to the end. There is nothing to lose by trying, and there is everything to lose by not.
Reality hits people at different times and when least expected. Tomorrow is a new day, and you never know what that day will bring to you and your M.
Try not to worry if you can and think you are out of time. Just keep optimistic that you will okay for you and your kids.
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