Babydoll,

I feel so bad for you and what you are going through.

It would seem that you have a lot of stress on you at the moment, but you are handling the sitch the best you can. You do not have to make a decision at this very moment. Take your time and let your mind, heart, and your instincts guide you to the best decision for you.

This could or could not be a tactic. You are unsure as you should be. If this is not a tactic then he will be understanding of you needing time to absorb what he has said.

All I can say is take your time and do what is best for you and the little one on the way. Time does help with making decisions.

One more thing, don't do the friend thing if you don't want to. My wife told me we could be good friends, and I told her that is not a enough for me ever. Maybe, I will be okay with that someday. Only time will tell.

Take care of the two of you.


ME-41 W-33 M-8 D-8 S-4 D 5/17/2010
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