How do I act?

[Surviving03]

yeah.. .it is amazing... I feel like I am in the twilight zone though... for the first time since this all happened, I feel like I am in the presense of my old H

So, so far, he is still on the same path, he told his work that he is going to make it work with us and apparently got a lot of positive encouragement and he seems to be feeling good about that. He told me he wants to go to the Chaplain for counseling and he will make the appts, we will see. He started talking to me about our "plans" for the future now that he is not going to Iraq and how we are gonna make that work when he gets out of the miltiary next year. He pulled me into the computer room and started showing me houses in the STL area (where we had always said we would live until he made his new plans of living in the same town as his daughter) and showing me how we could afford them and how they are "only an hour away from D"... he seemed to be beaming yesterday.... we had gone to the store and he was holding my hand the whole time, he never holds my hand....

I dont want to be too easy with this too fast... I mean so far he is telling me EVERYTHING I would want to hear, and I dont want to belittle his efforts if they are genuine... but I dont want to be naive either....