yes I have admitted a while back that I believed we were piecing and we are not. I stayed in this forum because people encouraged me to not drop out.
I didn't mean you shouldn't be in this forum . I was just asking how MC fits into this when your H is in an active affair and is frequently treating you really badly. It seems like he's used the MC to keep you hanging on to the M, while he is demonstrating no commitment to the M. Going to MC involves you making yourself vulnerable and trusting him with your feelings and thoughts...but he hasn't earned that trust IMO.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
. I was just asking how MC fits into this when your H is in an active affair and is frequently treating you really badly. It seems like he's used the MC to keep you hanging on to the M, while he is demonstrating no commitment to the M. Going to MC involves you making yourself vulnerable and trusting him with your feelings and thoughts...but he hasn't earned that trust IMO.
