Flowmom:
First,congrats on your success on the work front. Such things are very important.

You mention new AD have allowed you to relax a bit and feel a bit better. My W has been on one common AD for over a year, and I have been told that it might be time to try something new, as her depressive episodes are worse than ever. Do you have any thoughts on this notion?

Keep hanging in there.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012