Depressed H wants to walk

[flowmom]

Sorry.. Flowmom... we seem to be running into each other. I don't wan't to be offensive in any way.. but..

He's coping with (what his Ic has helped him define) guilt (over putting me through all of this) and depression (lack of interest in much of anything). I am seeing the results in that he is coming home earlier/working from home more, before he would avoid coming home as long as possible. He is calling me more. He is less irritable in general. He is able to focus more on his work when he is working. He has also learned to look at his situations from a different angle. Thinking about what advice he would give someone in his shoes.

This does not seem to be a "external" (typical male) depression. To me.. and my crazy thoughts.. this guy just really does not have a "great" counselor. This C is a IC. He/She (IC) is focusing on his issues. The results as defined by ReelingW have me a bit concerned.

I see your point FG...I don't think that I read carefully enough. Reeling -- FG is the vet here, you're lucky to have one posting to you