I have wondered that myself Mr Bond about just going ahead and moving forward with the D...get it over and move on...everyone is different! She wants it to be easy, my H wants it to be easy...if you agree to what you wife has proposed, then it can be easy...

Sometimes this all feels like a crap shoot! Read all the advice you get...wait until you are not so emotional...again, what is best for you and your family!

You've got time...no decisions need to be made now!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing