H called my cell. I purposely let it go to VM twice. No messages. Thought H might have been calling re: money so I waited 15 mins or so and called from land line. (I did that to record call with my cell.)
Glad I did. H wanted to start a fight over every bill he could think of. I'm stupid, don't have priorities in line, no smarter than a second grader, etc. I kept my cool the entire twenty min call only responding calmly to his opinions with mine, telling him that I wouldn't have the name calling or the yelling and cussing. H says not paying for any health or life insur b/c not necessity. Threatened that if I didn't agree to cancelling life and health insurances and selling the house, then obviously I'm not thinking straight and shouldn't be taking care of our kids. Told me that the "fantasy world I'm living in is about to explode" and that I better find somewhere else to live quickly because he's taking over and will take the kids too. Said that b/c I'm too stupid to not have cancelled life insur before it drafted and it was same amt as elec bill, the lights will be cut off.
I have the conv recorded as I said. Called his Mom and told her of his call. She was "in shock", doesn't understand why he's doing this, doesn't think he'll take kids or do any of his threats and is just trying to make me hate him and get me to fight with him. I told her that I'm getting to the point where out of protection but not wanting D, I'm gonna have to file so that judge will force him to do what he should. She told me that no one in his fam would be upset with me and would understand if I did and why.
Should I go file or try to wait it out and see what he does?
My parents would have to charge the L on their card. I don't want to file but am not trusting H right now about anything.
Oh. His mom and sis are convinced he's having an affair. They offered to pull his company phone records a couple weeks ago. Should I ask them if offer still stands. (H tried to change all account info on our cell account today.)
