IMO, I don't think that's going to change anything. You avoided trying to get served, which made her pi$$ed and I think she's going to feel the same about this.

I know you don't want to get D and are trying to stall, but maybe in this case you should just get it over with and then try to reconcile after.

Maybe you need to do a 180 and tell her you now want the D because of the type of person she is now and then stop communication with her. Throw her for a loop.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER