IMO, I don't think that's going to change anything. You avoided trying to get served, which made her pi$$ed and I think she's going to feel the same about this.
I know you don't want to get D and are trying to stall, but maybe in this case you should just get it over with and then try to reconcile after.
Maybe you need to do a 180 and tell her you now want the D because of the type of person she is now and then stop communication with her. Throw her for a loop.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.