I felt my W was and is in depression. I offered my suggestions which she refused and got angry about. So I just let it go. No one can save them but themselves.

Maybe your W needs to hit rock-bottom before getting help. She has to be the one to recognize that there is a problem and go from there.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER