WhereforartthouRomeo, nah... too long. Romeo, I used to GAL my buns off when I separated. Despite the pain there was a sense of relief and freedom as well. I was going to build a life, which thanks to DB I had already started doing before the separation. I was taking Latin Line Dance, NIA which is an aerobic kind of exercise...sort of, and I was the only guy! I also did Yoga classes and took part in every church group I could handle, small groups, prayer groups, you name it I was doing it. Have you ever checked out Meetup.com, some people have found some good times there and they have groups for every taste depending on the size of the city you live in. Check it out.