I am trying to leave my wife alone which is one of the reasons I moved out. She knows how I feel. Hopefully this will give her time. I see her quite often because of the kids. I would like to scale that back a bit if possible. I have been helping her with the house - We both had let the house go over the past 2.7 years becuase we were both so wrapped up in our sitch. This has helped. She has shown much interest in fixing up the house again. cleaning, painting, fixing broken things. I am sort of handy so I do stop by and help do certain things for her. Put up molding, cut grass etc.
Is this okay??? I do things but try not to linger. Any thoughts? It is still half my house and if things don't get better it will be sold.
You know her best, and you know enough about mlc for me to say go with your gut. Trust yourself.
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Anyway...since I decided to move. I have seen days of happiness and days of unhappiness and anger. Before that it was....feelings of depression, hoplessness, crying, staring in to space.
We've all been there. It's the part of this that you must go through, there really isn't any other way. You WILL come out of this for the better no matter what if you stay on the right path.
