You may be on to something OP! Tonight D13 told me that H told her last night that she hasn't been pitching enough~that she is now an "average" pitcher.......said he made her cry. I wish I knew why that seems like the right approach......
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12