First off you are a man....for some reason I just assumed a lady. Don't read anything into that.
2nd - I thought maybe you were one of those lifetime posters but you actually started after me.
1st off.... LMAO! I'll never hear the end of this.
2nd.... Yeah, I found this place way late in the game. My ex had already filed. She started her journey back in 07 after a series of events I guess you could call them.
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I feel for you buddy....Your wife sounds like mine but then again they all sound the same.
Have you seen any improvement in her over the years?
They do don't they. Although we are all different, it's interesting how most of them cope in the exact same ways.
I've seen many improvements. Mine was and still is the queen at trying to keep me on the string, yes there have been improvements, but like many here she cycles. I do see some positives that have stuck. Right now she isn't in a very good place from what I gather. It's like she's went backwards.
Much like an addict, they will do this. They will improve then slip and improve then slip. I guess thats how the issues are dealt with. Sadly some will do this forever, never learning and dealing with what they need to.
Some will eventually get it and want to return, others will get it but too much will have happened, they just won't be strong enough or the lbs will have moved on.
You never can tell what will happen.
You just turn it over to God and keep on living the best life you can my friend.
