SA thank you so much for your encouragement. I too hope that your H will soon come to his senses and give you a chance to rebuild
HB - Thank you for your advice, It's greatly appreciated . OW's Husband calls me because he feels really insecure about my H not moving back home right away. He is giving me this stupid advice to go to H's apartment and try to seduce him...hahahaha. Don't worry, that's not going to happen at this stage.
I feel better today, H has been calling me all day. Just small stuff...like reporting on his business meetings and complaining about his bronchitis (looking for sympathy I guess). Conversations are friendly and relaxed today. Overall a good day .
rysmom - my H still lives in his apartment, he only broke up with OW couple of weeks ago (after a 1-year affair). We agreed that we will take it slow, he still has lots of work to do on himself.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO