The important thing is to stop the negative feedback cycle. and game-playing on your end.

One he starts pushing your buttons, you go off and there is little chance that things can be resolved.

Try to look at the emotional reactivity article that I referred to...

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."