reconciliation after divorce?

[any chance?]

Ok, what do I do here? W is in a tailspin. She looks catatonic ,and is barely holding it together. This has been going on for a week. She bemoans losing everything - friend, family, me - says she has nothing to look forward to. She is not communicating with me very much at all, and all her friends are most concerned about her welfare. And she is the one asking for a D! Do I contact her and let her know I am here if she needs me? Or do I let her ride it out, which is very difficult to do. Please give me some feedback