It's a Marathon Not a Sprint

[MichelleLT]

Yeah well, you know STBXW won't cave. That would require her to maybe sacrifice a little of her sense of entitlement (wonder where the kids got it from LMAO).

Money doesn't buy everything.

And in 10 years where she went to undergrad will be a couple lines on her resume that most people won't read. It's great that you are trying to give her every opportunity, but you have to know what you can afford. If that means she accepts student loans for the rest, then that's what it means. She'll have to make the decision.

Nothing in life gets handed to us on a platter.

The best things, we work our butts off for.

She'll have to do the same.

She'll get past all the BS with your help and guidance I'm sure.