I hope you can think of tonight as a cathartic purging. Get those evil reminders away-haha!
But seriously, there is no doubt. I think everyone would say- "what the hell is wrong with that man?" Beyond disturbing.

Stay strong! He is a total @ss- there I said it. Sometimes I think it feels good to call @ss an @ss.

I personally am a dork and would envision silly things like hoping he trips while carrying something heavy and throws out his back. Or slips and really clunks his head. Comical stuff, minor mishaps, not really mean stuff.....

Is the separation finalized? I remember he was being difficult with that.


M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)