My Wife And Her Emotional Affair

[ken5140]

We dated for about a year before we got married. The EA has gone on since July of 2009 (about 10 months now).

My wife vacillates between wanting a divorce and wanting to stay with me for the sake of the kids and because of her convictions about what is right in God's eyes. She is very pessimistic about whether she can fall in love with me. She says she is not attracted to my personality.

I saw that the OM was trying to call two days ago, so I called him back to see what he wanted since I thought he was on board with leaving us alone. He said he was having his 7 year old son call to ask to talk to my 7 year old daughter. I asked him to stop doing that because it wasn't helping our situation. He seemed to agree and understand.

But yesterday, to my amazement, my wife talked to the OM by cell phone for an hour or two. She can't use our home phones for that because I have his number blocked. She just recharged her prepaid cell phone two days ago with $25 and is already down to $9. I'm hoping that when she sees how much money it is costing her, she'll stop talking to him by phone.

All this going back and forth is driving me crazy!