It's almost like a leap of faith that you put into H. It's definitely scary that he's MIA so much, but if he truly is in therapy, that definitely is a reason for a small bit of hope. It's not over til it's over! But I definitely agree with you - time will tell! You will have a pretty good idea by the time you are ready to file if he is lying to you or not. You should see some ounce of progress in H if he really is going to counseling (but like you said, not necessary yet in the R since he must fix himself 1st) but definitely in his own state of mind. He is so all over the place and up and down, I just hope he really is in therapy and that they can bring some healing and rest to his mind and soul. You just continue to live your life on the road you've chose and if he wants to jump on, he will, otherwise, you've got your whole life in front of you!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
