My STBX asked me to find a place the day I was served. I didn't budge and that was a very fortunate decision. She could have really screwed me on custody which would have also left me holding the bag on a very sizeable CS payment from what I understand.

Hopefully you can get your JPC you want that would be a good start. But prepare yourself for the worse case senario.

It doesn't sound like your W has an OM and that is a bonus for now. It doesn't appear to change the course your headed down but it has to lessen the emotional trauma a bit.

Best of luck!


M48/W47
M15/T22
S3
D3
In House Separation 10/06/09
W files for D 10/16/09
OM1 discovered 10/28/09 (PA)
OM2 in mix early Jan.
W moved out 1/26/10
In Mediation (Settlement in prep)